A Silent Revolution in a Time of Resolutions
This is the time of year I usually look back and reflect on the year that was and also look ahead in anticipation of the year to come. This year I have decided to simply think about right now. I get so caught up with being nostalgic about the past and plotting the future that I get lost in real time. I have learned alot because my life has been thru so many twists and turns and what I figured out is that you can plan and plan and go over every forseeable detail but life is not predictable. If it were it wouldn't be any fun. There is something to be said for taking things as they come and reacting honestly to the situation. Your instincts guide you and I think the gut reaction to a new situation is usually the most interesting way to go. Not overthinking and depth of comtemplation, just intelligent reactions based on who and where we want to be. There is a beautiful honesty for living in the moment. It's a different state of mind that breeds new course of direction. Gives you the strenght to take chances.
Taking the Big Chances: Has anyone made a new years resolution yet? Have you ever stuck to your resolution without fault? Why is it such a difficult task to make a mental decision and abide by it? The body is so easily swayed by the mind. Or maybe it's vice versa. What if this year we just choose one specific goal. Something that you can feasibly hold on to. An idea or a change that you know would make you feel powerful.
I think the first thing we need to do is envision how great it's going to feel when you realize you are in control of yourself. A successful resolution is all about control. We often put the power over ourselves out of our own self. It's the silent voice in the distance that won't let you do the things you want to do. I make my life more dificult that it should be all the time. I fight with mental demons on a daily basis but am starting to realize something. It's not about spending time arguing with myself. I can ignore those conversations altogether and simply go out and DO what I feel. I know the exact moment that I choose to relinquish control and maybe i can change that.
Your choice of resolution does not need to be stated here. That is something personal to you. What I do wanna know is how your quest is going and keep me posted of the ups and the downs. When do you feel good? What makes you feel weak? If you fall a bit off track were you able to get back to where you wanna be at. Do you feel you have to let other people down by doing something for yourself. Is feeling good about yourself making your relationships better with others around you?
It's important to me that we all have a great 2007. We are intelligent people and we have been successful in most aspects of our lives. This is about taking advantage of today. One small step at a time. Let's do something for ourselves that makes us look back on 2007 with amazement.
Start this tonight and the rest of your life.
Marty
Taking the Big Chances: Has anyone made a new years resolution yet? Have you ever stuck to your resolution without fault? Why is it such a difficult task to make a mental decision and abide by it? The body is so easily swayed by the mind. Or maybe it's vice versa. What if this year we just choose one specific goal. Something that you can feasibly hold on to. An idea or a change that you know would make you feel powerful.
I think the first thing we need to do is envision how great it's going to feel when you realize you are in control of yourself. A successful resolution is all about control. We often put the power over ourselves out of our own self. It's the silent voice in the distance that won't let you do the things you want to do. I make my life more dificult that it should be all the time. I fight with mental demons on a daily basis but am starting to realize something. It's not about spending time arguing with myself. I can ignore those conversations altogether and simply go out and DO what I feel. I know the exact moment that I choose to relinquish control and maybe i can change that.
Your choice of resolution does not need to be stated here. That is something personal to you. What I do wanna know is how your quest is going and keep me posted of the ups and the downs. When do you feel good? What makes you feel weak? If you fall a bit off track were you able to get back to where you wanna be at. Do you feel you have to let other people down by doing something for yourself. Is feeling good about yourself making your relationships better with others around you?
It's important to me that we all have a great 2007. We are intelligent people and we have been successful in most aspects of our lives. This is about taking advantage of today. One small step at a time. Let's do something for ourselves that makes us look back on 2007 with amazement.
Start this tonight and the rest of your life.
Marty

